Ways To Make Excuses When You’re Already Caught Cheating
Now, we all have our relationship mishaps. I really don’t believe that there are some of us who have been very faithful to their partners all the way, if ever there are still are, well good for them. I admit I have cheated on my lover in some occasions. I have my reasons eventually, which I really devise well to be believable. It sad but we have to accept it that cheating has no excuses, whatever justification there is to be redeemed from the situation.
But then again, let’s just try to make those excuses in case forgiveness and forgetting could be achieved one way or another. If you ask me, these are the ways that work best when being unfaithful:
- “It’s not what you think.” This is the most classic excuse, although making up an excuse impromptu might be a little hard. So while you are doing a little naughty thing, run your mind like hell and come up with a good excuse. It may somehow ruin the moment, but hey you should decide with whom you want to continue a relationship.
- “I’m a victim here.” You have to look the other way and put the blame on the person you’re getting jiggy with it. Try to make sense that you are just lured into the situation. Yes, it is hard to lie but consider it as taking a stand for yourself, although you might really lose big time.
- “We are not working out anymore.” Play this card if you always wanted to break up all the while. This is the easiest but rude way to dis on somebody. But if you are that desperate and insensitive. What the hell, go for it!
I do not advice cheating because it does not only ruin the relationship, but there is a huge effect on the self. A lot of people have been destroyed because someone has been cheating on them, worse yet, they have been cheating. All in all, it is called guilt that might result in depression, aggression and even suicide. It will take a long time to heal unless you have already been in the situation many times. You don’t really mind doing it over and over again.
